Meet for dinner or coffee

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You decide you need to take it to the next level and ask her out to dinner. She even responds very well. What went wrong? This advice is in the context of the scenario above. This is advice for guys who continually find themselves in the above situation.

And how to tell when this is the case. And you know, it worked, because I was very ballsy and clearly claiming what I decided I wanted. An experienced girl knows this. And then you ask her out to dinner. This causes a change in her head;. That is why the unspoken tradition is generally to meet up for coffee. All you need to meet up again is the bare minimum to expose yourselves to each other again. Coffee has generally worked for people, because it avoids all the problems in the bullet points listed above. You get to meet up in a very low pressure, casual situation, have a chat, see how you get along.

And then you have the unspoken option to continue spending time together that afternoon and extend the it a movie, clubbing, dinner, if things are going well. So, if coffee works better than dinner, but …. Secondly, we made it more personal. Or just desperate to see a girl again and not know how to progress. Using what just happened as a reason to catch up again is far more genuine. Never ask her to do something for you, when you can rephrase it into a confident, and polite statement, eg. Flag it in your head, and indicate interest to it. Talk about it. You can secretly put some fun into it, to inject some memorable experiences into your first meeting, and this is nearly always a good idea.

But for a first date, it has to be really incidental. It kills the mystery and the romance. Then, you MUST propose the next meetup before the interaction ends. Something that just happened. Particularly after you get her . If you take the focus off the , for example, by continuing to talk afterwards, it will go several steps to showing the interest is in her as a person, and not remind her of all the guys who tried so hard to just get her , like getting it somehow was the code to get into her bed.

As a general rule, make statements, politely. Trying to get her , to hopefully get her into bed. It can be a mini-conversation at the end before you actually say goodbye. It could be dinner, could be a movie, could be a walk in a nearby park. And you can be spontaneous, eg. Naturally, there is a lot more that ties into this one topic. How to get into this situation where she likes you enough that you want to arrange to meet up again.

I can show you all this and more. Thanks for the comment. By the way, how did you personally discover this article? Where you actively searching, and what were you searching for? If you hit it off with someone well after a random chat in the street and you get their Facebook or whatever, if they already like you then the simplest excuses to catch eg. Just read the situation. As for being creative — try just walking somewhere. You never know what you might run into. Keep an open mind. Walking somewhere is good because it increases the chance you might see or hear something that will fuel the conversation.

Anything to avoid sitting and staring at each other and trying to think of questions! I can do an article on actually having interesting dates in the long term, but essentially you want to get involved in things so you can invite people to them. It all depends on how into you the other person is. Hi, I have few questions in related to this topic and also a situation I have been going thru with a girl. Interesting stuff, even 7 years on. For a couple of months after connecting, Michelle liked and commented on some of my LinkedIn posts, and I did likewise.

The frequency of this was relatively high; perhaps our way of getting to know each other. Helen saw me at work the afternoon of that day and told me she met Michelle. Helen told me that Michelle seemed very interested in me and asked her a of questions about me that had nothing to do with work, etc. Helen stated that Michelle had told her that we had never met in person, which is true.

Later that day Michelle and I exchanged messages on LinkedIn regarding her meeting with Helen, and Michelle stated that Helen had lots of very nice things to say about me. I was going to be out of the area on business that day and I informed her of such, with regrets. Her response was that she would check her calendar, and get back to me. For reference, InterNations is a global community of expatriates.

This interest is all 2 people need, just cultivate it whatever way you can. There was no offer from her to reschedule in her text and there has been no offer since. Oh well! They like you to chase a little. You are commenting using your WordPress. You are commenting using your Google .

You are commenting using your Twitter . You are commenting using your Facebook . Notify me of new comments via . Notify me of new posts via . Search GO. You kill all the mystery and the possibility of things being allowed to progress more naturally An experienced girl knows this. Even if you had sex. But you can do better than that. Personalise it. Share this: Twitter Facebook. Like this: Like Loading I would love to hear some more examples about setting up dates and being creative during them. Leave a Reply Cancel reply comment here Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:.

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